Well.wisher
SENIOR MEMBER
if you don't mind me asking how old are you?
and a word of advice coming from guy who knows guys very well. chose the guy carefully there is a reason Islam gave you and only you the right to accept or reject your partner. use it if you feel the need there is nothing unislamic about it.
don't put much hope in changing him afterward most guys are stubborn in nature they don't change easily. it take decades to change their small habits. so don't throw your life away in the hope of changing a bad apple.
I'm 20 ..
But I believe guys can change if they get a continous and kind lecture . After all they're humans , they can change .
Anyway I was saying it as an exception otherwise I hope Allah subhanu won't give me a drunk .. I hate drunks :/


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there is a lot you need to learn about guys.(i am going to disclose deep secrets which might get me killed but i am doing this to help you so listen carefully
. agar biwi say bhi leacture hi suney ko milay to phir larka kehta hay f**K my life yar. bhar main jaye sab main nay kisi ki bhi nahi sunni. thats how our brain is wired. we are immune to lectures hence its quite hard to change a guy.


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............. unless you are willing to become a mureed .......... for that you have to take bayt.....................> some rituals that would involve going to graveyard at night, killing a black kukar, feeding its meat to the crows, then getting your head shaved forever, and finally depositing PKR 100,000 every month in my account.
. Unless you have figured out this creature beforehand there are high chances that you will be in a shock for sometime.