And what makes you so sure that in both Libya's case and in Syria's case it is not the will of the people?? Clear your mind and get down from the high wall you climbed.
In any country if even 10% people go out on the streets the country is ungovernable. Let me give you the example of Pakistan if 10% went on the streets that would be 18 million people. Even with one of the largest armies in the world, ISI and nukes you think they could be controlled simply no.
In Libya it was a minority who without western interference those supposed rebels couldn't get out of Benghazi. If you look at countries where there is real popular uprising the govt doesn't last a week.