I would like to stick to my point it is a dangerous game being played by you.
Since we are having this discussion i have another question for you. What is the Afghan side of this story. What are their views i mean both Talib and non Talib??
In the eye of the beholder - see, to get a good sense, we should be mindful of the context, don't you think? I met this Afghan gentlemen, he was a certified Bin Laden hunter and an all round nice guy - and he told me about what life under the Mujaideen govt was like in kabul - now recall that at that time govt was Ahmad Shah's militia under the political cover of Rabbani's Jamiaat, in additon, other Mujahideen groups controlled various sections of Kabul - so according to this gentlemen, uncertainty was such that each group of the Mujahideen ripped the citizen off at the check points they controlled and he thought thatthe Talib were most welcome -- but as the Talib fought with the forces of Massoud, they also became crazier and crazier, that they had no idea of governance and were peasants who wanted only to kill their enemies -- and the enemies lists grew - you will recall the idiots enforcement of prayers and all that, basically a Saudi Arabia in the Hindu Kush.
On the other hand, All of Afghanistan is not Kabul, in fact the cities are not representative of Afghanistan, the villages are and there the Talib attitudes and enforced public piety were not regarded in the same negative light as in the city of Kabul.
The Northern Alliance fighters certainly hate the Talib, Pashtun Liberals (read communists) certainly hate them, Tajik, Uzbek and Hazara populations certainly see the Talib as representatives of Pashtun in the civil war, as nothing less than hateful -- Talib support is by and large among the Pashtun peasantry, in the villages.
As for the view of the Talib, I think it's fair to say that they are now primarily motivated by the idea that they must expel the Firengi, the Angraiz -- I don't think that the same anti Tajik sentiment is at work, they still despise the Tajik and do not accept them as Afghan, but I don't think they entertain notions as they did before, that Tajiks must return to Tajikistan.
So, I hope the picture you are developing is one in which the context of the Civil war and Anarchy and Massacres, a Hobbesian nightmare informs the relations between the groups -- On the other hand, I can tell you first hand that I have also witnessed that people live entirely peaceful lives with different ethnicities -- so, it is most certainly complex.
Now, as to your point about dangerous, well, yes, I don't think Pakistan ought to trust the US to be mindful of Pakistani interests, is that dangerous? sure, but it's Afghanistan, everything is dangerous because the US finds it's interest best served by promoting instability -- some will find this hard to believe - but I would ask that observers be fair, it's going on 10 years, please do point to what the US has done to effect stability, or to promote the idea that Afghanistan cannot but have peaceful relations with her neighbors -- is 10 years some small amount of time??