I think the Srilankans wishing to visit TN should first visit North & East SL(Tamil Areas). If they find them welcoming there, they can proceed to TN. They can gauge the Tamil reaction in TN by visiting their own Tamil areas.
Ohhhh After seeing this I really laughed. There are a lot of locals visit north, most of them go at weekends! Some of my relatives visit few weeks ago too. East province became normal before the north province and you can see many local and foreign tourists in those areas. Tamil population in East province is around 35-37% only, Muslims and Sinhalese has similar percentages. Tamil population in north province around 7-8% compared to sri lankan total population. 4-5% of Tamils live in other provinces around the country.
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