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In Pakistan, Salman Taseer’s assassination in early January has blown the lid off the seething cauldron that has been bubbling in Pakistan for the last several years: the divide between Pakistan’s extremist forces and its minority liberal community is now so wide that it seems nothing can bridge the gap anymore. Worse, the extremists greatly outnumber the liberals, endangering whatever advances have been made in the Pakistani society.

But the women intelligentsia of Pakistan is determined not to let the religious right gain any more ground in the struggle for Pakistan’s soul. They have responded to the onslaught of the right wing with such ferocity that a Pakistani man said on Twitter: “I definitely see more women out on the streets after Salman Taseer’s killing. Does this mean that it is the women that have the guts in this country?”

It all started with a woman: Aasia Bibi, the hapless Pakistani-Christian mother of five who made the mistake of getting on the wrong side of a group of malicious village women. One moment Aasia Bibi was offering her coworkers a cup of water; the next, she was facing the death penalty for having supposedly committed “blasphemy”.

Activists and women’s rights groups, aghast at the blatant abuse of human rights that Aasia Bibi’s case represented, agitated for the country’s leaders to have her acquitted. Pakistan’s progressives, especially women, got in touch with the Governor of Punjab Salman Taseer through his Twitter account – one which he used mostly to tweak rival politicians’ noses, share his favorite Urdu poetry, and communicate with his daughters. They besieged him with 140-character-long appeals to save Aasia Bibi’s life, hoping against hope that he would listen.

Taseer not only took Aasia Bibi under his protection, but he widened his scope to take aim at the blasphemy law itself. But Taseer’s strong voice was silenced on January 4, when his own bodyguard, Mumtaz Qadri, shot him 27 times with his state-issued Kalashnikov.

After the initial shock of the assassination, women activists vowed to use it as a rallying point: not just because they feel for Aasia Bibi, the first woman in Pakistan to face the death penalty for blasphemy, but because they know that women are the first to lose their freedoms when extremism takes over a nation. They are organising candlelight vigils, rallies, and media campaigns to defend their hard-won rights, despite knowing they are outnumbered by the other side.

One of the bravest women in today’s Pakistan is Shehrbano Taseer, daughter of the slain Governor, who wrote several pieces for the newspapers protesting the death of her father and the way in which his killer was showered with rose petals by lawyers who vowed to defend him in court. For this, she received threats from extremists: “She should remember the fate of her father and refrain from issuing statements.”

Taseer, a graduate of Smith College in the US, draws inspiration from other brave women in Pakistan who came up against the same forces: Asma Jehangir, Benazir Bhutto, Jugnu Mohsin, Sherry Rehman (who is now living under virtual house arrest in Karachi because of death threats she has received for her stance against the blasphemy law), Sharmeen Obaid Chinoy, Beena Sarwar, and Marvi Sirmed are some of the women whose struggles against injustice in Pakistani society have inspired her.

And of course, there is her father’s legacy: “My father’s fire has come inside me … I don’t wish for any other family to have suffered what mine has had to.” Her father’s violent death has illustrated most vividly to her how both men and women in Pakistan have worked together for generations in the name of social activism. “Men and women have marched on the streets together and sacrificed a lot, so I don’t feel one sex is more dominant than the other in this regard.”

But it is not enough. The men in Pakistan need to step it up greatly when it comes to supporting women in social activism. Nuzhat Kidvai, a human rights activist in Karachi, says, “In general, men are more active in the left and labour movements – they will march for economic or political reasons. But when it comes to supporting women’s issues, they just aren’t there.” Her husband, Zaheer Kidvai, a long-time proponent of social activism in Pakistan, agrees that “women are certainly more engaged in this battle and despite bad attacks – lathis, jail, beating, and even rapes by the police! – they have moved this forward against all these odds. If there is any way for this society to evolve further, it’ll have to have even more women come out.”

So, back to the original question: is it really the women in Pakistan who have the guts? When it comes to fighting for their rights, definitely. Life in Pakistan is hard for women, but they don’t give up easily. Perhaps this is why they haven’t yet suffered the fates of their compatriots in Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan, and other supremely conservative Muslim countries in the region.
 
Women are tough and brave, no doubt about it. I have seen it first hand in my country. I salute these ladies, in a total darkness they are the candles.
 
Women are tough and brave, no doubt about it. I have seen it first hand in my country. I salute these ladies, in a total darkness they are the candles.

You know Ahmed! In our country you will see lot of rallies for one thing or the other but never for women. Well can't blame them for that. They are the ones who do this. How can they hold rallies against themselves? Before reading this article, i never thought about it but yeah i tend to agree with this article.
Not just women, noone even has the guts to talk about minorities, another vulnerable group.
 
You know Ahmed! In our country you will see lot of rallies for one thing or the other but never for women. Well can't blame them for that. They are the ones who do this. How can they hold rallies against themselves? Before reading this article, i never thought about it but yeah i tend to agree with this article.
Not just women, noone even has the guts to talk about minorities, another vulnerable group.

Mehru ji,
"Nature gives much power to women, the Law too little".
And Men in general have been incredibly stupid and short-sighted and continue to perpetuate the "Law's" injustice.
 
You know Ahmed! In our country you will see lot of rallies for one thing or the other but never for women. Well can't blame them for that. They are the ones who do this. How can they hold rallies against themselves? Before reading this article, i never thought about it but yeah i tend to agree with this article.
Not just women, noone even has the guts to talk about minorities, another vulnerable group.
you or anyone else don't need to come in streets or road for women ...... we all (including me) should follow golden rules of islam set by HAZRAT MUHAMMAD SAW then i don't think so anyone will yell about the rights of women or men ...... first fight for the islamic law specifically riba free system because economy is a basic thing to avoid any kind of conflict between anyone ......... our riba free system with nizam-i-khilafat will solve everything ... INSHALLAH.............but the question arise who will fight for khilafat and riba free system ......
 
Well its always the women who are daring and best strategic thinkers. History is replete with with the examples women leaders be it leading on in the war zone,leading a country and leading in society to defy fundamentalists.
 
Not just in Pakistan...

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What a brave woman! As the Quaid said:
"I have always maintained that no nation can ever be worthy of its existence that cannot take its women along with the men. No struggle can ever succeed without women participating side by side with men. There are two powers in the world; one is the sword and the other is the pen. There is a great competition and rivalry between the two. There is a third power stronger than both, that of the women."
Speech at Islamia College for women
March 25, 1940
 
you or anyone else don't need to come in streets or road for women ...... we all (including me) should follow golden rules of islam set by HAZRAT MUHAMMAD SAW then i don't think so anyone will yell about the rights of women or men ...... first fight for the islamic law specifically riba free system because economy is a basic thing to avoid any kind of conflict between anyone ......... our riba free system with nizam-i-khilafat will solve everything ... INSHALLAH.............but the question arise who will fight for khilafat and riba free system ......

Khilafat in pakistan its not going to happen pakistanis are not very found of religious parties ... as for women compared to the muslim world (which isnt the best example though) pakistani women are still very much free , We are the first nation to elect a women premier ? who can be more liberal than that even the champions of democracy havent done it yet ??
 

Thinking about it from a historical perspective.

Whenever women have ruled,they"ve proven their ability over men.
 
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you or anyone else don't need to come in streets or road for women ...... we all (including me) should follow golden rules of islam set by HAZRAT MUHAMMAD SAW then i don't think so anyone will yell about the rights of women or men ...... first fight for the islamic law specifically riba free system because economy is a basic thing to avoid any kind of conflict between anyone ......... our riba free system with nizam-i-khilafat will solve everything ... INSHALLAH.............but the question arise who will fight for khilafat and riba free system ......


According to you, Islamic law i.e Sharia law will solve all the problems of women and will grant her the status she is aspiring for. I would like you to ponder on this article with an open mind and then give me your opinion. I am posting the relevant part.

Men in socially backward societies — a condition that characterizes most Muslim countries — find that they are powerless to control external factors. But they can exert control over their sisters, daughters and wives. In the animal and the human kingdoms, there is a need to kick those below you in the pecking order. All too often, men frustrated with their lot take it out on their women.

This macho bullying has been institutionalized in tribal and religious law in many societies. But while other communities have evolved, and women have achieved equal rights, this still remains a distant dream in most Muslim countries.

Many Muslims are fond of stating the obvious: Islam accorded many rights to women in a benighted era when they had no rights at all. While this is certainly true, the reality is that the world has moved on, while the position of women in large parts of the Islamic world remains frozen in time.

In this day and age, to suggest that a woman’s testimony is equal to half a man’s is surely an anachronism. Or that she can inherit only a portion of what her brother does. While these concessions might have been revolutionary centuries ago, they are now viewed as discriminatory.

Then there is the whole question of forcing millions of women into stifling garments that cover them from head to toe, and restrict vision and movement. While the Quran does not require any such clothing — calling only for modest attire — many Muslim men feel their easily offended honour is best protected by placing their women in these uncomfortable and impractical outfits.

The Urdu word for ‘woman’ is ‘aurat’. This is derived from the Arabic word ‘awrah’ that can mean ‘genitalia, weakness, deficiency, imperfection’. No wonder a woman is required to be covered at all times.


When being a woman is a crime | | DAWN.COM
 
Khilafat in pakistan its not going to happen pakistanis are not very found of religious parties ... as for women compared to the muslim world (which isnt the best example though) pakistani women are still very much free , We are the first nation to elect a women premier ? who can be more liberal than that even the champions of democracy havent done it yet ??

Certainly true but let's not applaud ourselves on that achievement as there are other measures to determine women empowerment.

No reason to celebrate | | DAWN.COM
 
Certainly true but let's not applaud ourselves on that achievement as there are other measures to determine women empowerment.

No reason to celebrate | | DAWN.COM

agreed ... thats why i mentioned that it isnt the best scenario and the reason behind example was to explain e-mullah pakistanis are liberal in nature so stop hallucinating .

It is mostly in rural pakistan (which is the majority ) where women rights are abused most again this points to fundamental issue of land reforms these areas are under control of fuedal lords who are operating a state within a state and any one can pretty much get away with whatever they like as long as the master(s) is/r happy , too start with Pakistan must exterminate this medevil structure
 
you or anyone else don't need to come in streets or road for women ...... we all (including me) should follow golden rules of islam set by HAZRAT MUHAMMAD SAW then i don't think so anyone will yell about the rights of women or men ...... first fight for the islamic law specifically riba free system because economy is a basic thing to avoid any kind of conflict between anyone ......... our riba free system with nizam-i-khilafat will solve everything ... INSHALLAH.............but the question arise who will fight for khilafat and riba free system ......

Sir,

P)lease read you post again----you make no sense----seems like you have no clue what the issue is and how to address it----you are planting the stateside guidleline and painting everything with a whitewash from the same brush stroke.
 
The Urdu word for ‘woman’ is ‘aurat’. This is derived from the Arabic word ‘awrah’ that can mean ‘genitalia, weakness, deficiency, imperfection’. No wonder a woman is required to be covered at all times.

Thnx for info madam
 
You know Ahmed! In our country you will see lot of rallies for one thing or the other but never for women. Well can't blame them for that. They are the ones who do this. How can they hold rallies against themselves? Before reading this article, i never thought about it but yeah i tend to agree with this article.
Not just women, noone even has the guts to talk about minorities, another vulnerable group.

the best example is you mehru, it people like you in your country can defeat radicalistaion , you have courage take on fundamentalist
 

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