You are mixing 3 different things, politics , propaganda and basic stats without any cultural knowhow. Learn thing or two about cultures before talking about stats that you heard on YouTube. Like the Camel Guy said, there is no rape in Middle East. Just like Pakistan, They rather brush it under a rug than go to police.
All these land have been conquered multiple times, everything from Anatolia to Burma. Which means Afghanistan n Pakistan. But aside from large Armies. We are talking about tribal warfare. To this day, tribes faction kill each other in Fata area on stupid stuff. KPK has progressed much but 100 years back, same tribe use to kidnap daughter of rivals gangs. To some extent, Same stuff still happens in parts of Afghanistan n Baluchistan.