Domestic Violence Map in South Asia

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I had a Jutt Sikh girlfriend for 2 years. She was a lot of fun to hang around with. Not sure what kind of wife she would have made though.

Yeah they're a LOT of fun generally, good thing you didn't earn her ire

those bitchez be cray cray when triggered

 

[fitpOsitive]

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Definitely bakwas.

 

[Khan_patriot]

our pahktun brothers love wwe

And our Punjabi brothers love 365 days so much that they think harassing/ assaulting every woman they see on the street is the macho thing to do

 

[lastofthepatriots]

And our Punjabi brothers love 365 days so much that they think harassing/ assaulting every woman they see on the street is the macho thing to do

That’s not true in rural areas or for example, in my city Bahawalpur. One yell from a female and all the ‘bhai’s’ are ready to pent out years of their rage on the poor bastard that thought it was worth the risk.

 

[Bilal9]

For educated upper middle class folks, I think the manliness (at least where I live) comes from how much money you have to "maintain" the woman.

I talk to women all the time who say that if their "man" did not buy them a designer handbag (costing upward of $7,000 to $12,000) every year, then that man does not deserve to have her as wife.

One would think that this is inching closer and closer to gold digger territory, but these women in my circle think its par for the course.

Of course this is how most of LA is, even the desi crowd is like this.

 

[Zhukov]

Whats up with Bangladesh?

 

[mangochutney]

There are trigger factors. Every month, for one week, women antagonize men.

When I first got married, I was oblivious to this and was like...hmm everything seems to be going well but from time to time all of a sudden, this bitch becomes totally irrational and snaps at almost nothing.

It was like she was challenging me to smack the jin that would take control over her. I never did and eventually realized what it was...

Anyways, whenever I would realize it’s that time of the month, I’d grab my bag and head to my pind for about a week.

When she’s got the painters and decorators in man must stay away .
Mine , when she makes samosas she always row with me so much that I don’t like samosas like I did . Crazy woman

 

[mangochutney]

Wise man!

Women do suffer from monthly plumbing related issues. Better to steer clear.

But most guys are in general incapable of keeping up emotionally with their women. Not an arrow in their quiver of skills.

Strategy adopted early on is a must to tame wild horses.

Women are unpredictable, but you must shore up all loose ends and problem factors. Consider and THINK.

The best thing is to get the right kind of woman (not very combative) - in the first place.

Sidhey saadhey, bholey bhaaley is best. That factor should take precedence over other factors, within reason.

Even with occasional girly "foul advising" from their "friends" you can still keep her under control.

Let her think that she has you under control.

Treating her well (foot massage, khushbu chai and occasional chhota mota gifts without asking) helps. Control and ONGOING mgmt. is key.

Playing "Hot" and "Cold" at the exact right times is also key.

what did you say ...... foot massage


No sir , if my woman asks me for a massage I show her Pakistani massage : I will give her some aata some water and tell her to massage the dough & get it ready for rotis .
It’s good for the nerves and the joints and the blood circulation

 

[Bilal9]

what did you say ...... foot massage


No sir , if my woman asks me for a massage I show her Pakistani massage : I will give her some aata some water and tell her to massage the dough & get it ready for rotis .
It’s good for the nerves and the joints and the blood circulation

Different circumstances, different games I guess.

I get my Malaysian or Pakistani frozen Parathas or Roti ready made from the grocer's freezer.

Pop them in the hot air oven so they're ready in a few minutes.

I am glad you can get handmade rotis on request.

Whats up with Bangladesh?

Men can't tolerate women and their new status. Same like Pakistan.

Or just that women in India are strong and their men are wusses.

 

[Bilal9]

When she’s got the painters and decorators in man must stay away .
Mine , when she makes samosas she always row with me so much that I don’t like samosas like I did . Crazy woman

I'd offer to make Samosas with her. If she's okay with it.

If this was the US. I'd try that.

Try that tack and let us know how things go.

Of course Pakistan/Bangladesh is not the US.

In Bangladesh once she has to get divorced, she doesn't get alimony.

Doesn't get jack. Changes the whole outlook and tone of the marriage.

 

[Kyusuibu Honbu]

Couple of observations

North Indian states with higher preference for male child have low levels of domestic abuse
Southern states IT hub Karnataka and Tamil Nadu have higher rates of abuse
Bangladesh has highest rates of domestic violence, makes sense to some extant given extensive trafficking of Bangla women to India
I Sleep in My Own Deathbed

Well-oiled network gets 50,000 Bangladeshi girls trafficked into India every year

 

[Khan_patriot]

That’s not true in rural areas or for example, in my city Bahawalpur. One yell from a female and all the ‘bhai’s’ are ready to pent out years of their rage on the poor bastard that thought it was worth the risk.

I agree, I just wanted to make an ignorant generalisation just like OP

 

[lastofthepatriots]

I agree, I just wanted to make an ignorant generalisation just like OP

I agree. It was a stupid thing to say.

 

[nahtanbob]

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I think the data is skewed based on how comfortable woman can even tell outsiders. I can see some women scared to tell anyone

 

[Maula Jatt]

Punjabi women require a manly man in general. If you’re a pussy they won’t respect you and will automatically assume the male role, ultimately making you their bitch.



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